I totally agree on finding yourself( know who you are, know what you want) and loving yourself (and accept yourself) are mandatory to find the one. We need to be strong enough to not compromise ourselves and dare to say np to "Not-Fuck-Yes" guys/girls. Being single is sometimes lonely but not as much as being a couple but you feel like you are solo.
I had worked on lacking self-acceptance when I was in a relationship to help with our relationship (at that time). Now we broke up and I still work on it. I already feel great like lifting a mountain from my chest and I hope I will find the "Fuck Yes" guy in the future. And if not, it is still okay :)
Ohhhhhh love you! Thank you for writing this.🥰 I do agree with you. My first problem is the step #1. I don’t understand what I really want. I know that I’m easily convinced. And this is leading to the step#4, “Fuck yes/no”, I’m not confident to say what I want. I just feel like it’s ok with me but when the time passed. I realize, “Oh my gosh, I don’t like this!”. So it’s very important to understand yourself, know who you are!!!!
I’m not a kind of “a playing game person” but I can see from many people around me that it’s something that you can loose your opportunities in life, not only for finding “the one” but also others way of living.
Last but not least, the step#2, Love yourself, oh my goshhhh!! I just read some article saying that yourself represent who you are. Then I look back to myself, I see a sad, unhealthy, and unattractive lady looking back to me….
I totally agree on finding yourself( know who you are, know what you want) and loving yourself (and accept yourself) are mandatory to find the one. We need to be strong enough to not compromise ourselves and dare to say np to "Not-Fuck-Yes" guys/girls. Being single is sometimes lonely but not as much as being a couple but you feel like you are solo.
I had worked on lacking self-acceptance when I was in a relationship to help with our relationship (at that time). Now we broke up and I still work on it. I already feel great like lifting a mountain from my chest and I hope I will find the "Fuck Yes" guy in the future. And if not, it is still okay :)
Thanks for sharing,
XX,
Praew
Ohhhhhh love you! Thank you for writing this.🥰 I do agree with you. My first problem is the step #1. I don’t understand what I really want. I know that I’m easily convinced. And this is leading to the step#4, “Fuck yes/no”, I’m not confident to say what I want. I just feel like it’s ok with me but when the time passed. I realize, “Oh my gosh, I don’t like this!”. So it’s very important to understand yourself, know who you are!!!!
I’m not a kind of “a playing game person” but I can see from many people around me that it’s something that you can loose your opportunities in life, not only for finding “the one” but also others way of living.
Last but not least, the step#2, Love yourself, oh my goshhhh!! I just read some article saying that yourself represent who you are. Then I look back to myself, I see a sad, unhealthy, and unattractive lady looking back to me….
Thank you again for writing this!
P