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Swarnali Mukherjee's avatar

I resonate deeply with this. I don't want children either. I think even if I become financially abundant, I would rather become a mentor to kids than being a mother. The emotional and psychological well-being of a child is not something that should be taken lightly. I might sound a little harsh, but I really think a lot of people don't consider that before they decide to have children. Some people are just incapable of reflecting a child's emotional needs because they have not worked on many difficult aspects of their personality and that is just a fact. If they eventually fail to realize the emotional needs of the kid, then the child grows up with a broken self-image. Needless to say a lot of people after growing up rely on addiction as a way to validate their existence. I appreciate your awareness and decision of not having kids when you know for sure you are not ready for this lifelong responsibility.

Sorry deleted the previous comment because I made some type :)

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Tessa's avatar

I feel you on this and all your reasons. Growing up, I've never seen the appeal of children. I think because I'm also an only child, I also didn't really have contact with "kids". Now that I'm older, I see the appeal of having children and I get why people would want to. But I think like you, I value my freedom and finances more. Maybe that will change - who knows - but this is where I am right now!

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