Note: this post is the second of a 4-part series. If you missed the last one, you can catch up here.
Boss No. 2
My second boss managed me as I was rising in the world of Corporate Learning & Development. By this point I was being given far greater responsibilities than in my initial months, and she was skillfully helping me navigate the often choppy waters.
Lesson No. 3
The lasting impact she’s had on my life isn’t so much something she told me. It’s how she lives.
She is one of the most inspiring individuals I ever came across. Her work ethic is exemplary, and on top of that—and this is the key—she lives a most full life.
We worked together for quite some time, but it wasn’t until late in our time together that we began to know each other on a more personal level. I began sharing my personal self with her, and she did the same.
Through knowing her, I’m constantly inspired to live thoughtfully. This is one thing I’ve been trying to do for a long time—I want to be remembered posthumously as someone who’s “lived a thoughtful life,” but no one more than her gives me an impetus to do so.
To this day, we have long WhatsApp conversations where we share updates and reflections on our respective lives. Her endeavours constantly remind me of what we can accomplish in life, of what we can push ourselves to do if we’re willing and disciplined. And her unerring belief in me is a great motivator, to know that she completely believes that I will live a fulfilled and successful life gives me belief in myself.
And on top of being the model of how to live, she also gave me one of the biggest gifts I’ve ever received: she introduced me to the person who’d become my Boss No. 4. But more on that later.
Thank you, Agnes, for always being an inspiration. I’m very lucky to know you and continue to feel privileged every day that you choose to have me in your life.
To be continued.
Until next Friday… Stay cool, stay safe, stay thoughtful,
Val